Easy Steps to Remind Yourself to Relax and Stay Stress Free!

The lead up to Christmas, with the end of term, busy schedule of events  and getting away for a holiday can be highly stressful with little rest or relaxation time.  Here are some ideas for you to try to stay stress-free:

  1. Psychologists & Therapists  emphasize changing how the mind perceives and responds to stress through cognitive and behavioural interventions.     Practice **cognitive reframing** / CBT techniques: Identify negative thought patterns and replace them with balanced perspectives (e.g., “This is challenging, but I can handle it”). Highly effective for long-term resilience.    Build and use social support: Talk to trusted friends, family, or a therapist — connection buffers stress hormones.  Set boundaries and prioritize tasks: Use time-management techniques (e.g., saying no, breaking big tasks into small steps) to regain control.
  2. Doctors & Physicians take a whole-body approach, focusing on reducing the physiological load of chronic stress (cortisol, inflammation, blood pressure).     Get regular **physical activity**: 150 minutes/week of moderate exercise (brisk walking, cycling, strength training) is one of the most evidence-based stress reducers — it releases endorphins and lowers cortisol.     Prioritize sleep hygiene: 7–9 hours/night; consistent bedtime, dark/cool room, no screens before bed.   Eat a balanced, anti-inflammatory diet: Whole foods, omega-3s (salmon, walnuts), magnesium-rich foods (leafy greens, nuts), and limit caffeine, sugar, alcohol.    Use quick relaxation techniques: Deep breathing (4-7-8 method), progressive muscle relaxation, guided imagery, or autogenics.
  1. Nutritionists & Registered Dietitians say diet directly influences neurotransmitter balance and inflammation, so nutritionists target food as medicine for stress.      Focus on blood-sugar-stabilizing meals: Complex carbs + protein + healthy fats every 4–5 hours to prevent cortisol spikes.     Include stress-supportive nutrients: Omega-3 fatty acids, magnesium, B-vitamins, vitamin C, and adaptogenic herbs (ashwagandha, rhodiola — with medical supervision).   Limit or avoid stimulants: Caffeine, alcohol, processed sugar — they exacerbate anxiety and disrupt sleep.  – Stay hydrated and consider probiotic-rich foods: Gut health strongly linked to mood via the gut-brain axis (often called the “second brain”).
  1. Exercise Physiologists & Movement Specialists say movement is medicine — experts in their view, the body evolved to handle stress through physical exertion.    Do aerobic exercise (running, swimming, dancing): 20–30 minutes most days for immediate and cumulative benefits. – Practice yoga, tai chi, or qigong: Combines movement, breath, and mindfulness — especially effective for chronic stress-related disorders.    Use high-intensity interval training (HIIT) or strength training: Quick endorphin boost and improved stress resilience over time.   Incorporate “movement snacks”: Short bursts (5–10 min walks) throughout the day to interrupt sedentary stress cycles.
  1. Mindfulness, Meditation & Healing  this is the deliberate activation of the parasympathetic  NS (“rest & digest”) response.    Use mindfulness meditation or Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR): Even 10–10-20 minutes daily reduces anxiety and rumination (strong research support).    Practice daily mindfulness or body-scan meditation: Non-judgmental awareness of the present moment — proven to shrink the amygdala (brain’s stress center).    Listen to or play music: Proven to lower stress hormones and muscle tension quickly.    Spend time in nature or with pets: Both reliably reduce physiological stress markers.    Practice gratitude or journaling: Writing three things you’re thankful for or keeping a stress journal shifts focus from threat to positivity.    Do breathwork: Box breathing (4-4-4-4-4), alternate nostril, or diaphragmatic breathing — instantly calms the nervous system.   – Practice loving-kindness meditation (metta): Cultivates self-compassion, highly effective for self-critical stress.    Use yoga nidra or guided relaxation: Systematic relaxation that can feel like “sleep with awareness.”    Try an energy balancing or Reiki healing session
  1. Integrative & Naturopathic & Integrative Practitioners  often combine conventional and complementary approaches.   Use adaptogenic herbs (ashwagandha, holy basil, rhodiola): Help the body adapt to stress (strong evidence for some).    Try acupuncture or massage therapy: Both shown to lower cortisol and improve HRV (heart rate variability).    Use aromatherapy (lavender, bergamot) or forest bathing (shinrin-yoku): Simple, accessible sensory interventions.

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  1. Move your body daily (especially outdoors).
  2. Practice mindful breathing or meditation (even 5–10 minutes).
  3. Connect with others / seek support.
  4. Sleep 7–9 hours and eat whole foods.
  5. Do one enjoyable thing daily (music, hobby, laughter).

Start small — consistency beats intensity. If stress feels overwhelming or persists, consult a healthcare provider — chronic unmanaged stress increases risk for virtually every major disease.

Check in with our Health & Wellness Practitioners to support you  https://www.wellnesshub.nz/practitioners/

Pamela Harland – Holistic Wellbeing Counsellor

Spirit of Wellbeing

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